My Philosophy:

My Philosophy:
* PEOPLE ONLY TREAT YOU ONE WAY...THE WAY YOU ALLOW THEM!

* If someone treats me like s-hit, I just remember that there is something wrong w/them, not me. Because normal people don't go around destroying other human beings.

* Saying yes to happiness means learning to say no to things/people that stress you out.

* Don't be upset with the results you didn't get w/the work you didn't do (this includes relationships)

* What defines us is how well we rise after falling

* If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it

* Be with someone who knows what they have when they have you. If they don't, someone else will.

* NEVER CHASE LOVE, AFFECTION, OR ATTENTION!! If it isn't given freely by another
person, it isn't worth waiting for nor having.

* One does not attract what they want, but what they are. In the same respect, one does not attract what they want but who they are.

* Be mindful of what you toss away, Be careful of what you push away, and think hard before you walk away.

* I have no patience for a woman that can't act like a woman. I already have a di$k, I don't need another.

* if someone doesn't appreciate your presence, make them appreciate your absence.

* Strong men only intimidate weak women.

* Don't sacrifice what you want most for what you want right now.

Im back

It's been a while since I posted my last blog on here relating to the topic of what I first posted I first have to apologize to my readers for such of a delay. I recently had some great tradegy that befalle3d me and l=my life and it has taken me sometime to finally get back to what all you guys have gotten from me in the past. I recently lost as of June, July & Aug of  my grandmother, father and mother to cancer in which it has at best been a traumatic experience .  I have alone been able to finally get over this loss to continue to bring to you the things that I first started.  So now it is back to business as usual and once again I do apologize for leavin you guys without any further provacation.  But as you can all understand a great lost as the one I have suffered has taken a toll on mentally, physically and emotionally and I can finally say that I am back to basic knowledge . so as we all look forward into the new year of  2013 I hope this  new year has come in as you all expected it to be.  I will post further back to the topic I originally started but until then I do wish all my readers a  Happy and Glorious new year with many more to come twith the hopes that the new year brings to you and your family all the wishes and dreams that you have long for till m y next full post I wish you all the best and here is a great year with greater things to come....RealTalk 100...

Is your man withdrawing? Here are five ways to explain his behavior.

Here you go Ladies here is a little exerpt FOOD FOR THOUGHT
Is your man withdrawing? Here are five ways to explain his behavior.
 Any woman who's actively dating will at some point deal with a man who is pulling away. If you notice that a previously attentive man is showing signs of fleeing, one of these things is likely going on:

Your Self-Esteem May Be Costing You a Great Relationship!!

1. He's just not ready. You may have been communicating effectively that you're playing for keeps (and if so, great job!) but this has him exiting stage left because he is not ready for the commitment.
 2. He is scared to take the next step. One of men's primary fears is the loss of freedom. He may be evaluating whether or not what he will gain by having you in his life is worth the inevitable loss of his sexual freedom, financial freedom or time.

3. You're experiencing "man time." When a man gets involved in anything that consumes his attention (work, sports, hobbies, to name a few), he loses track of time. When he finally realizes how much time has passed, he may be too afraid to call you and risk having to face how pissed off you may be.

4. He thinks you've changed. You're not being the same gal he started with. Instead of being easy-going, fun and clearly appreciating who he is maybe he's getting a taste of another side of you; someone who is hard to please, insecure, needy or just not fun anymore.

5. You're not the one for him (or he's not the one for you). You may feel disappointed by this realization at first but in the end it's for your benefit. If this is the case sooner or later that the relationship is going to end.